Introduction 
Divorce can be challenging and emotionally draining, particularly when there are a lot of conflicts. When couples fight and argue, reaching an amicable agreement beneficial to both parties can be difficult. This case study examines applying the Curiosity Theory as a conflict resolution strategy in divorce.

Case Description 
John and Sarah had been married for ten years and had two children. They had been experiencing marital problems for some time, and eventually, they decided to get a divorce. Before meeting with an attorney, they worked out everything except two issues, property division, and spousal support.

John and Sarah tried to resolve these issues independently, but their discussions always ended in arguments and accusations. They felt frustrated, stuck, and unable to move forward. They decided to seek the help of a mediator to assist them in reaching a settlement agreement.

Mediation Process 
During the initial mediation session, the mediator...

In the first step of the Progressive Cycle, we introduce the Respect & Safety Stage. Here is where you start to build Human Connection and Rapport with others.

Respect and Safety are fundamental to conversations and create the first level of comfort and openness.  At this point, you will find that people start to share what’s truly important, the stuff that makes a difference.

I want to encourage you this week to generate that space of Safety & Respect in all your interactions and let me know how it turns out.

Connect to Your Needs

Give yourself a reason to listen: What needs of yours are met by listening?

Connect to Your Feeling

What is it going to feel like when you meet your needs for listening? 
Here is where most people get lost - (Call me to clarify)

WIIFM

What's In It For Me?
Do it for yourself, so you win, and
then take that win to others so they win as well.

Here's to your ongoing success - Martin

When I decided to get serious about my life the first time I was 17, I had just graduated from High School and by some amazing miracle I got accepted to go to SDSU

The big leagues

I was so proud of myself. I knew exactly what I was going to do. I loved music and people, so I made the choice to pursue music as a dream and psychology as a backup.

I remember registration day.
There was a table outside and lots of eager kids just like me ready to take on their next step in life. I had all my paperwork filled out, I did have questions but I felt confident I could get help.

I was next in line. I stepped up to the person handed them my packet and smiled as I waited instructions, she said “Your Money” I looked surprised and got real confused. What money I asked. Tuition, she said with a smile. I said “I thought school is free”, turns out I was wrong.

I was confused and maybe a little embarrassed but still very happy and excited.

That afternoon I remember telling my...